I realized that too often, people bud into other people's lives. Maybe with good intentions, just wanting to help, or sometimes due to curiosity, because they simply want to know, occasionally with less than honorable intentions, because they have other plans.
Point is that they worry when they shouldn't, or give their opinion about the situation and their solution to your problem, making you second guess your own, and ultimately either confusing you about what to do, or making it so that you don't do what you wanted to do.
In the end, you're not living your life by your own philosophy. Your life becomes the hybrid of many different philoso